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Originally Posted by DechanDawa
1) Ask yourself what you are getting out of being the way you are. Do you like being the center of your own pity party? Maybe you want a reward for becoming more responsible for your own feelings? Are you waiting to be rescued? Finally, what would change bring you? Would it be better than your present experience? Can you imagine what life would be like if you changed? Work that imagination...
2) Clean up your place. No one wants to date a secret slob.
3) Find a park to visit even if you are just sitting on a bench daydreaming. If it's cold, bundle up.
The law of inertia has you going in one direction. Fight back. I am in the same boat as you. We can change our futures.
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I don't feel like I'm feeling sorry for myself or depressed, it's just what I've been doing for x amount of time. Ok once in a while I'll be full of sorrow and feeling sorry for myself.
Life would be great if I can change. I'd go to the gym when I want, socialize "get out there" etc.
Maybe I just need the right kick in the arse. You say work that imagination, but how do I start? How do I push myself that extra inch to do what I want or wanted to do?