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I know I should talk to him about this, but how? I don't want to hurt his feelings.
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I am really enjoying our time together, and I think really highly of you. However, there is one thing on my mind that I need to discuss with you. You are so affectionate--which I like--but sometimes it gets to be a bit overwhelming. I want your affection, but could there be just a bit less of it? That would make me even more comfortable with you and even happier about us.
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I don't want to hurt his feelings.
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If he were to get angry, or excessively and unreasonably hurt, or abusive about an honest, reasonable, and heartfelt request along those lines,
then you have
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a sign that he's not the right guy for me
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