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hi, I am new here.
I am struggling with a relationship issue. I really didn't know how to interpret this situation, am I being overly aware or too concerned over nothing or should I trust my gut and be prepared to address the situation.
We have a weekend cabin and have developed many new friends there. My husband is tall and very talented with fixing things. So he is everyone's handyman. One of our single friend's knew I left the cabin early and made sure she stopped by the day I was gone with a meal for my husband. it was steak and all the fixings.
Then I saw quite a few texts between them. yes, I read them...shame on me. It was friendly with a hint of flirting nothing too much.
She has a crush on my husband, but never has done this before.
I guess to me a single person doesn't plan to stop at a married man's home to bring him a steak dinner ...doesn't make sense to me. I wouldn't think to do that.
What would you do, just ignore it and brush it off unless it happens again?
I have discussed my concerns with my husband, I told him she has a crush on him and I didn't think it was okay for him to encourage it by flirting in texts or in person.
okay a bit of background this lady is not his type kinda tom boyish and we do have a good relationship and are communicating very well. My husband is unaware of his affect on people, he is just a nice guy.
He thinks she was just being motherly...by bringing him a meal.
Thanks for answering, I would appreciate the input.
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