Yes actually she did make me pick a "safe place" . I chose my new adoptive moms house because she made me feel like I had a safe home whenever i visit her there. So thats my place to hide when we do this. It IS hard. I hear you there. We are dredging up a ton of stuff right now. Its kinda scary in that I am having nightmares about it. My parents were cruel to me, my brother, just downright sick.

It does seem to be working, but im remembering a lot of stuff I think ive blocked out over the years. Everytime I go see my adopted mom, she gets so mad when I mention my parents. (both are dead) she keeps saying if she met me and they were alive they would have gotten an earful. Im lucky that way with her. She has given me hope.

Take care, and nice to meet you!
Colleen