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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Is she open to looking into what is wrong with her? Have you been to counseling separate or together? Could she have a personality disorder?
Why are you just taking it? Is it that you feel like shared custody would put your kids at risk of physical abuse? (If I remember your prior posts)
You've got a monster on your hands and need an exorcist.
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She is adamantly and consistently opposed to her going to any kind of therapy, together, alone, whatever. She did agree to talk to the Rabbi but then changed her mind. She has that streak of narcissistic "I'm perfect, everyone else is sick."
Why am I taking it? I'm taking it because I wanted it to work so badly, and I keep hoping, and it only got bad two years ago, and if only, if only, if only.
It's probably classic co-dependency.
And on the other side I'm afraid of her and what she'll do when I start divorcing her and she'll do it for the next ten years.