Thanks for breaking it down! I appreciate the input.

We are in our early 50's, and I can't get through to my husband, that it was not right.

He is like whatever, I got a grilled T bone steak.

stomach first...then brain

I am friends with her, I just chatted with her keeping it super simple letting her know that I was aware.
MY message, HI thanks for dropping off that nice steak dinner for my husband while I was away. You didn't need to do that. I have made several meals for him. He can cook for himself too.
Asked her about her boyfriend who is out of town.
i forgot to mention that part. She does have a boyfriend, but he was away.

She read through it, said it was left OVER Steak, and I don't have time for this crap.

message clear! on both sides, she lost her first husband to cheating.