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Originally Posted by Bigbluefrog
Thanks for breaking it down! I appreciate the input.
We are in our early 50's, and I can't get through to my husband, that it was not right.
He is like whatever, I got a grilled T bone steak.
stomach first...then brain
I am friends with her, I just chatted with her keeping it super simple letting her know that I was aware.
MY message, HI thanks for dropping off that nice steak dinner for my husband while I was away. You didn't need to do that. I have made several meals for him. He can cook for himself too.
Asked her about her boyfriend who is out of town.
i forgot to mention that part. She does have a boyfriend, but he was away.
She read through it, said it was left OVER Steak, and I don't have time for this crap.
message clear! on both sides, she lost her first husband to cheating.
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omg he** yes you did good here bravo girl.

Sounds like it worked

I had no idea whether she was someone you would approach directly or not so didn't suggest to say something to her but that was a great idea. It sounds like what you said was clear enough, in making a point without accusing or saying anything that would be too aggressive. niiiice.