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Originally Posted by prefabsprout
I totally understand why she was upset too but my male friends often say blunt tactless stuff, personally I think this is a difference between the sexes men do tend to be less sensitive in my experience. No biggie IMO. Yes she does sound a bit out of proportion to me but she's your friend and you get to decide if that's acceptable to you or not.
Certainly wouldn't beat yourself up and I agree with S4nd if this is a true friendship it will survive and you will both laugh this off.
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"..but my male friends often say blunt tactless stuff.."
Ummm so much this ^^^
Being a male I know first hand what my foot tastes like. I can only say that I know this is so true from being guilty of it myself.
Men, in many cases just dont' think much on some of the particular sensitive subjects as women do so we just blurt sh__ out sometimes lol. Takes a particularly mindful male to stay one step ahead and think before we speak. I know, it can be done but it takes work on our part haha.