Especially for people in the UK, do the professionals have a rather narrow perception of what behaviours and even thoughts and feelings are "acceptable"..

Thinking about su is "wrong"

Not putting up with all sorts of scary health stuff in silence is wrong... a lecture is given - (with very poor use of words, making anxiety worse ) not a great use of the 10 minutes maximum as I'd already told them I'm not "stupid" (so therefore am, amazingly, capable of using google )

This was my fault though, I should have remembered, never trust an unknown doctor with anything.....

"I'm fine" "I'm fine" - "thank you"

And it's beyond hard not to have to consult unknown doctors over here.. I'm screwed

Am I the only person who feels "shamed" at times by professionals for not being the normal, average "coping" at all times pleb or whatever they like best, people who "conform" to their values at all times... and never argue even if they are misdiagnosed

I'm sorry, I'm probably "just bitter"

I did have at least one doctor who didn't use shaming tactics.. this doctor has
moved away.

I'm sorry, I'm not "endearing"

If I can help just one person who "suffers in silence" then maybe this grrr is not a "waste"