Hi, so I've been dating this really sweet, awesome guy for a bit over a month now. We met from a group we're both in, and I pretty much had a crush on him from the moment I met him. We get along really well, and I actually feel like he's someone I can trust. It would seem from all of this that we would have a pretty solid relationship, but there's just one problem: I feel like he's overly clingy.

I don't know why, but whenever I spend time with him I get annoyed by certain things. It seems that he constantly has to be holding my hand or kissing me or giving me compliments. And I know you're supposed to do those things in a relationship, but it just seems excessive. The weird thing is that in my last relationship, I was the clingy one. So it's really odd to be on the other side of things, and I'm not really sure how to deal with it.

So I have a question about this. Is the fact that I get annoyed by him acting like that a sign that he's not the right guy for me? I really want our relationship to work out, but I just get so overwhelmed sometimes by how lovey-dovey he acts. I know I should talk to him about this, but how? I don't want to hurt his feelings.

Anyway, any thoughts or advice on this situation are welcome. Thanks!