I never have really had anxiety about turning grey as I've been dying my hair since I was 16. I made the mistake of dying it red a while ago and it isn't growing out well. I was really humiliated a few weeks ago when I overheard a conversation between two very self-centred women who were laughing together s they talked about "older women who let their roots show". It was obvious it was me they were talking about. I was really quite hurt and embarrassed. How cruel of them.