Hello,

A girl I was seeing for a little bit is depressed and is having a difficult time health wise, she has bacterial meningitis, but she is also i think in love with me and dealing that heartbreak (first time in love and having sex). She lives in another country and we were only together for those 2 weeks, and i don’t plan on seeing her again for a long time.

Should I stay friends with her and continue to help her (she is in a rough spot with family too, sometimes not sure if she has anyone else), or should i break it off so she can heal her heartbreak. (but she still has to deal with meningitis and currently very weak body (and meningitis can aggravate depression as well, and she has been in so much physical pain for a few weeks, and there are a few other issues with body going on as well hormonally (she took plan B but the plan B has messed up her body too much, she should not have taken it).

It is a very tough situation and i am not sure what to do. I think that maybe being her friend is not positive for her and she needs to get over me.