My T said this to me today and I'm troubled by it. She said it in the context of nature versus nurture, i.e. that we are a combination of both, not one or the other. I know she wants a good result for me, or positive development. But I've always been troubled by how I suspect she judges the environment of my upbringing. Should a T be saying that? Is it helpful? Or is it an attempt to get me to submit to her. I don't understand it and don't like it.