Hello americantravel123: Welcome to PsychCentral. Well... given that I know only the sketchiest details regarding this situation, it sounds to me as though this was pretty-much just an extended "one-night-stand", so to speak... a fling you had in another country. It doesn't sound as though there is any commitment to this girl on your part. So my personal perspective would be that it may be best to simply break the relationship off in as gentle & compassionate, but complete, a way as possible. And don't see her again in the future.