It isn't right that you are being treated like this, but people can't change if they don't know that they are doing something wrong. This may be counterintuitive to the point of having an anonymous profile, but if words fail you I would recommend that you show these people your posts. However, it has to be someone that you can trust to share with someone else though. That's just my opinion though, if you feel like that's a bad idea, then feel free to ignore it.