I feel the same way. For example, I tried to clean my closet today, but right off the bat the curtain fell halfway off the door frame (there's not an actual door there anymore, because that fell off also, a couple years ago), and then hangers kept falling on me, so finally I took the hint and just gave up, leaving the mess on the floor. Every time I take proactive steps to improve my quality of life something like that always happens, seems like. And I cringe every time somebody says I should give myself more credit, or that things like that just happen, or worse, that I should be kind to myself (YUCK) because I don't see them struggle to the same extent, and with such basic tasks, the way that I do. They have normal struggles, whereas I struggle with the everyday tasks of LIFE. It's like, so I should be kind to myself for being totally incompetent??