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Originally Posted by satsuma
I'm really sorry you are going through such a difficult time.
If your T's perception is that he hasn't changed, did he offer an explanation about why he didn't reply to your email? I suppose it's possible that it wasn't a deliberate decision not to reply.
I understand what you're saying about consistency. It's really important to me too, and I had a big rupture with T a couple of years ago for that reason. We repaired it, when T said that consistency is very important to me and that he had temporarily lost sight of that. It took a while to get the trust back.
I hope you take care of yourself, and sorry that this is such a difficult time.
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Thanks for the kind words. I didn't bring up the lack of response to the anniversary day email, not have I followed up this latest one. I'm very careful to not be too demanding or needy, I already feel bad enough about creating the rupture mess, when really, he thought (and said) things were fine. Oh, he was all 'thanks for telling me how you're experiencing me' and encouraging about the dialog, but I feel like he really didn't think it had anything to do with him.