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Originally Posted by Vibrating Obsidian
Sounds like the love connection has been fading overtime, even he was aware of it. Otherwise he'd keep messaging you, yet it seems he wanted to meet up with you for the sake of staying committed.
How much were you connected heart-to-heart? What I mean is, how much did you settle and talk about emotionally intimate subjects and know what is going on with your lives?
I'm not making any bold conclusion, but it kinda sounds like you weren't really close on an emotional level and more on a sexual level. But three years is quite some time, so I really can't judge. But this is what I sense from your post.
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@Vibrating Obsidian,Hi there, Not really I actually wanted to have a serious relationship with him, but his medical studies, were just time consuming and Also this man happened to have
Undiagnosed ADHD, I believe this is the reason the relationship could not last longer I, was suffocating and it was sucking me dry, I felt like I was with a man child, HONESTLY I could not understand his odd behavior, I really don't know how complex is ADHD in an undiagnosed level. But I can tell you something, In my life I have never had such a weird relationship.
My mom even told me that she found it
really weird that he acted in such way especially him being 37 years old and dissapeared,,, especially us two being 3 years together and he just acted like.