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Originally Posted by *Laurie*
Hmm. A strange thing to say. I believe that if we survive every day, we are resilient. But I don't know the context in which your therapist made such a comment.
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The topic of what transpired in my past with my family is a sensitive one for me. She *definitely* made the comment "you're not resilient" to mean, your traumatic experiences -- if they really were traumatic -- were what they were, but I see you as not resilient (i.e. according to your biology) so therefore, really, I'm saying your experiences weren't so bad, it was as much if not mostly about your biology.