(below is what i am thinking of sending her, note she was suicidial/telling me she was going to end her life yesterday when her meningistis came back and she learned she would have to take antibiotics again which really messed with her the first time she had it), since then she has gotten treatement and is doing a little better physically and mentally. I had said I love you to her in the past, because I meant it we were very connected, never said it before like that, but I don’t know if it is good if I say it again like I do in the note below.) Thanks for any advice. (she has family but they aren't getting along, i worry that she won't have anybody once i stop contact, but part of me also thinks she is for some reason blocking out the others because of her in-secure connection with me?)


Hi ___,


I think being your friend is causing more harm than good. I think we should stop contact, you need to focus on yourself and your family. I love you and wish you the best for your recovery, but I am not the one for you, and being your friend I think is playing with your emotions.