Basically, I want to avoid a situation in which I am 'mothering' my therapist. It's easy and natural for me to caretake and I believe it would be especially easy to caretake a young woman who is 20+ years younger than I am. I already caretake plenty of people in my life and I don't want to spend my time in therapy boosting my therapist's ego and comforting her losses. Some of that already went on during the first session yesterday. So, we'll see....