thats why i only mentioned the body image part. i know im intelligent and i know have musical talent so when he compliments my singing voice or piano skills or my intelligence it doesnt bother me. im confident in that part. its my body that im not confident in. and he does compliment me on the other things but i dont think about it b/c it doesnt bother me.

and yes "chicks" especially when you are one, is kind of derogatory. i also prefer women. considering i dont think any of us on here are girls anyways lol