I wonder why some people try to change, while others don't!! I mean, I see all of these people here in these forums with all sorts of issues, and they are trying to get better by trying different things. I don't have this urge to change or try things out, not any more. What does this mean? Why do some people want to get better while others don't? Does this mean I am a lazy person who wishes for things only while not doing the work? Am I arrogant? Am I stubborn? I know I am missing on life and I weep over that fact, yet I don't seem to do anything about it. Why? I should be motivated to change because of the current pain and the possible pleasures, but I am not.