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Old Mar 26, 2017, 01:22 AM
yagr yagr is offline
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I understand your frustration. In fact, it keeps me in PM most of the time any more.

I understand that the mods have a reason for moving our posts. Often though, I don't feel that they realize that I have a reason for putting it where I did. I'm sure that many posters do not put much thought into where they place their posts, but I am not them.

Many times the only thing giving me the courage to share at all is because I know that TrailRunner, Luce, ruh roh, and others that I trust, frequent the subforum I am posting on and I know that they will have my back if someone starts in on me. A parallel example might be someone who is afraid to go out to a club alone at night but not if they have a group of their friends with them. So, I make sure the post I make has something to do with the subforum I'm in - even if it's not a perfect fit, and get rid of those secrets that are making me sick.

When my post gets moved, I go in and delete it if possible, edit it down to a couple of periods if it is not, ask to have it removed if neither of those things work, and in all cases, stop posting till my courage builds up again.
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