You are right Bill3, I am glad you caught that because I was thinking more about some of the things he put up that his wife said and how much he wanted to know what her thoughts might be. Honestly, some of what he posted that she said hit a place in myself that I experienced and got into my post. I am glad you made a comment because I did have a lot of anger surface from my own history in my post. I am glad I saw your post and got a chance to delete my post, I would not want to leave that like that. I did save my post for myself so I can step back and pick through it and possibly share things leaving out my own anger/hurt that surfaced in thinking about how "hurt" can cause "change' in someone.