My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years. We have a 7 month old baby boy. After I had the baby, he talked me into quitting my job as a graphic artist to stay home with the baby. Since then he has been unemployed off and on and has started drinking heavily. We can't even pay the bills anymore, he spends most of his paycheck at the bar. I have become more and more depressed, and want to leave him, but have no income or savings now, and am in debt due to his spending habits. How can I pick up and start over?