I absolutely don't mind. My T is psychoanalytic, which means that we work in the transference. I behave often in ways as I would hate him but I don't *feel* it. So any time he suggests that I hate him I snap back that I don't (because I don't feel the hatred or I don't recognise it or whatever). Anyway, the day I would be able to feel it so that I could openly say it to him would mean that I've obtained much better contact with my feelings or dissociated parts in myself and that would be a huge progress.