I agree with you, Courtney. My feeling was that the first comment was judgmental and not particularly helpful from what I have read from you here. My view is that judgmental ism is itself a form of bullying. I'm willing to bet that the poster didn't understand that, though.

I don't have ASPD but I have parts of me that are like that and I don't have control about how they feel though I do have some control over how they/ I act. But it's taken a lot of time in therapy, much of it unhelpful, to get to this point.

I don't think that you are a monster but I know what it's like to feel like one. Best wishes to! you