Dear Dr S, I am sad that we cannot meet up tomorrow. I understand. I am not devastated and I don't need it. I want it and am sad not to see you. Wednesday seems so far away. I won't email you today. I will tomorrow after my post-op appointment.

I wish you would email me. I know you won't. It hurts some knowing that you will keep this boundary. Is it comforting to know that you will keep this boundary or is it only sad?

love,
me