MontanaKimberly,
Do you have family that could help you get restarted?
Or perhaps there are agencies that will help. It sounds like you have a good career if you could just get a new start.
If he will not get help you need to get out. The situation will most likely get worse before it gets better and you and your child's safety are most important.

I do not know about your area but here you could call the local churches, the department of human services, or a local behavioral health center and get advice or referrals. Maybe the best place to start is the yellow pages. If you feel you are in danger call a local women's hotline.
Debt can be taken care of your safety is what is important.

I hope this is a little help. Sorry i could not be more specific. My thoughts are with you.

Take care,

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