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Old Mar 26, 2017, 08:48 PM
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Originally Posted by yagr View Post
I understand your frustration. In fact, it keeps me in PM most of the time any more.

I understand that the mods have a reason for moving our posts. Often though, I don't feel that they realize that I have a reason for putting it where I did. I'm sure that many posters do not put much thought into where they place their posts, but I am not them.

Many times the only thing giving me the courage to share at all is because I know that TrailRunner, Luce, ruh roh, and others that I trust, frequent the subforum I am posting on and I know that they will have my back if someone starts in on me. A parallel example might be someone who is afraid to go out to a club alone at night but not if they have a group of their friends with them. So, I make sure the post I make has something to do with the subforum I'm in - even if it's not a perfect fit, and get rid of those secrets that are making me sick.

When my post gets moved, I go in and delete it if possible, edit it down to a couple of periods if it is not, ask to have it removed if neither of those things work, and in all cases, stop posting till my courage builds up again.


Thank you friend. I agree with your words and thoughts.

I pray that someone is listening.
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