Yes he does monitor me,but he would NEVER step inside my personal boundaries.
Like reading my journal or anywhere I post.
He makes sure I take my meds and go to my appointments.
He can also read me well enough to see when I am hitting the skids. At which point he only ever intervenes with kindness.
I realise I am very lucky in this respect. And I do appreciate it even if I don't seem to at the time.