I chose "Once a week" that is when I have my sessions and I guess she has to prepare for it. I'm not particularly interesting or memorable. I know people here don't want to hear this but I really don't think therapists think about their clients. They have a life and we're not in it. I don't think about my colleagues when I'm not at work, why would therapists think about their clients outside of session? My ex T once said to me: "I take more space in your life than you do in mine, it's the nature of the work". That says everything.