Sometimes I think others would not have been as harmed by my upbringing as I was, and certainly my various Ts have commented that I am sensitive. Adverse experiences (whether or not overtly traumatic) would affect a sensitive constitution more than a more 'robust' one, but I also think sensitivity brings with it much more potential. The fact that you see her appraisal as a criticism of your innate temperament is something I think you should raise.