It sounds like you are hurt at k's behavior, rather than angry? That's understandable based on how much you love k. But if k were to do things the way "you" want, as nice as that sounds, she'd be your "puppet" and that wouldn't be any fun.

You sound like a good friend and that's always important. It could be that k will need that, come "back" to considering you seriously and like what she sees. I wouldn't say much or act on your love, just be "steadfast" as a good friend and see if things change in a bit?