Current T said she hardly ever drinks and apparently, never hard liquor -- she made a rather disgusted face when I told her I got well acquainted with a bottle of gin over the weekend. So, that's when I asked her about her drinking habits.

I don't know if this is true or not but she seems hell bent on portraying some ridiculous goody two shoes image -- she only got one speeding ticket in her life and that was a mistake on the part of the cop (she's 45); has tried to get me to agree somehow that sex in a long-term monogamous relationship (presumably like the one she has after getting married at 23) is superior to casual flings etc; concernedly asked me if I'd tried a specific (addictive) substance that I'd expressed interest in, when she was away (I sarcastically replied that it isn't strong enough to deal with the devastating pain of her absence).

I usually just roll my eyes and steer the conversation back to my specific issues rather than listening to her little morality lessons.