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Originally Posted by itjustis
I think it's a brave thing to do to tell someone how you feel about them, so well done.
May I ask what your T's reaction was? Or what she said?
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Thank you. I've struggled with her being away for so long .. and it's still another 5 weeks until she is back .. some other stuff has happened which has added to the struggle and she said something about Mother's Day which made me feel like she invalidated my feelings
I said (which was horrible I know) ..
" I don't want to talk to you ... I feel upset and am struggling ..
You're not here and you don't care ... I hate you ..
And Mother's Day may be commercial crap to you but saying that to me after I told you how much of a struggle that time of year is for me felt like you just invalidated my feelings"
She replied "oh, ok, I am here if you change your mind"