Thread: In Retrospect
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Old Mar 28, 2017, 06:57 PM
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I am weak to keep my feelings to myself, but posting makes things worse. I read some (explicit and implicit) accusations through others' posts and "Thanks" to others.
A lot of times the "thanks" you are seeing are when another member feels the comment applies to their own challenge that may be very similar to yours. When one is vulnerable, sometimes it can feel like criticism when all it really is about is "I have that problem too, and that post helped me look at it in a different way".
Thanks for this!
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