AnxiousGirl - Yes, I feel like I think about my T 95% or more than my T thinks of me. I think that is ok. There is only 1 of her in my life and there are many of "me's" in her life. With my attachment and lack of other supports in my life, it makes sense that I think so much about her. I get angry about it from time to time, too; usually when I am not feeling as connected to her or when I feel distancing is happening.

What do you do with the things you feel? Where do they get expressed (behaviors, hobbies, physically)? What do you think is leading you to be so closed off? Do you think your T was just trying to get you to be curious as to why you feel like you can't show your emotions?

What is wrong with not showing any emotions...? hmm the only thing that comes to my mind is that emotions are how we connect to other people - even when talking about intellectual things, it is our passion for those things or passion for intellectual discussions that connect us. I don't know - not sure it makes sense. Maybe the question is why do you feel you can't or that it is wrong to show an emotion (from time to time)?