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Originally Posted by scorpiosis37
I see this abbot differently. You asked her if she is getting a pot belly, which is an incredibly cruel thing to say. For women who have a history of being teased about their weight (which nearly all women do), someone bringing it up can be extremely painful and triggering. She probably needs some space from you to take care of herself. She also probably doesn't want you looking at and judging her pictures online. She is not calling you names, throwing tantrums, or playing with you. She is practicing self-care by keeping her distance.
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Well I apologized and I didn't really mean to hurt her. I've known her for three years and it's the first time I said anything derogatory. She has severed all communication and quite frankly I'm not sure what else I can do. I can tell you that she hurt me and if she was trying to get even she did. I really have no course of action at this point - I don't think apologizing again is going to do the trick. Like I said losing a friend is a big deal for me I don't have many. Bottom line is I feel like a three year friendship ended in a instant - much regret.