Was it a true friendship or was it one of those coffee place young ladies that you think of as friends? Do you spend time together? Where?

She maybe never considered it a very close a friendship and now when you have been rude, she sees no reason to hang out anymore.

If she was close friend why would you say such thing??? Or she really isn't that close of a friend? Are you just lonely or it was truly meangful friendship? I don't think she is obligated to continue being a friend just because you have no other people to talk to.