Do whatever makes you feel better.
I vented about it all on here, got validation and support from nice stranger, which really felt good. Then I confronted the abusers, hoping for an apology and empathy. But I did not get that at all, only much more meaness and abuse. Now I'm not talking to them, and I have to recover from the pain of the severed relationship, although it was a toxic relationship, the loss still hurts.
But I'm glad I stood up for and fought for myself.
They're not going to take advantage of me anymore...so they lose.
I wish I knew how to make it be a healthy relationship, but that's impossible, because the abusers want to abuse.