About almost 2 years ago (Beginnig of our relationship), my boyfriend who is in his late thirtys, asked me (27 years old) to do him a favor and to please call his female ”friend” to give her an address (which I looked up later on and found out it happened to be of a lawyer as far as I can remember!).


He wanted me to do it because the woman’s husband is somehow Abusive and jealous so basically it seemed to me that this woman in in some sort of toxic relationship and she has 2 children with this abusive husband , and supposedly this husband has even been in jail in the past.My bf wanted me to do him the favour of calling her, Just in case the husband picked up the phone out of rage. That way her husband would think I was just her friend, and would not put her in any danger or suspect that it was my boyfriend calling her.The abusive husband had even called my boyfriend numerous time at midnight to tell him to not communicate with his wife. and he also smashed his wife’s computer for talking too much on Facebook.My bf also told me this woman is also complicated since she does things to nag at her husband.Also this woman lives in New York while my bf and I are studying in Latin America(Fact: the women is originally from this country where we are both at right now) but my Bf and I live in the states but are currently finishing our carees here in latin america and he is heading back at any time now.


So Recently 5 days ago, after 2 years of not mentioning her to me whatsoever, he mentions me this women AGAIN!! The fact that now she is contacting him because he says he has ‘suicidal’ thoughts., so he was emailing her back trying to talk her out of it.He told me that she is a ''long time” friend and he is “concerned of her doing something crazy or wanting to hurt herself'' and that she contacts him when she needs his help or advice.I feel my boyfriend is too caught up in all this drama. From a very long time (Since we started dating I been hearing about this), I have a very strong feeling this is an ex girlfriend and there is some type of an emotional connection or affair between them or this woman is using him as an emotional dishrag,,,,even though he says she’s a ''friend'.What do you think can really be going on here? I already asked him twice and he keeps on saying the same things nothing new so, I am very confused here.