When it comes to toxic people, I'm all about termination.....it's sometimes the only safe choice. Stay strong and don't let them win. There are nice ones out there, but if your heart, mind and gut tell you something's wrong, my experience demonstrates you should follow it. Better safe than sorry at the very least. What did the guy say that the other used to? That must have really unsettled you! I have certain phrases I watch for and don't trust too. (((Hugs)))