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Originally Posted by junkDNA
I think what I do is read my T's tone in a text or email in the wrong way. It's so easy to do that. I've noticed you struggle with not feeling supported by his email responses. I try to envision if I was sitting there with my T, and how he would say it to me in person, based on my experience with him
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You're probably right, thanks JD.
In my (long) email to him i said sorry for sending it and he replied:
Hi Echos
It's not a problem for me. Inevitably a muddle of feelings for you and much better to put them into words than keep them all inside.
Take care,
T
I logically know that the "it's not a problem for me" bit was in response to my apology, but i can't help hearing it the other way. Also, a muddle is putting it a bit lightly. Not his fault though. Just sod's law it happened right after i saw him. It does help to imagine him saying it in person.