SweetCrusader, it wasn't until I read your post that I realized something-- The 1st time I brought the teddy bear to session we talked about why I brought it.... and he said, "When you hold the teddy it can be like........" And I mumbled, "Okay yea fine, it is sorta like holding you." Then when I got mad at him, teddy went back into the bag. So yes, I guess the bear does represent T and that is why it feels so comforting to wear the pendant around my neck.