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Originally Posted by SS1971
It just feels so different now ..
Earlier she sent this (will post at end of this) but I don't know if she means I should not have thought it was anything other than her opinion or if she means she shouldn't have said it? .. all I know is it feels different now and non repairable .. thing is it's 5 weeks until I see her again and even though I've sent her a message apologising, she isn't going to speak to me until next week now .. so I feel like she is punishing me for not talking to her last night :-(
"I have had time to think and in hindsight my opinion on certain celebrations should remain just that."
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If she is a professional, competent T then she is in no way punishing you. What type of therapy does she practice?
I think by that reply she may have realised her opinions should be kept out of the therapy relationship. And maybe she realised her flippant comment has had a big impact on you.
She will learn from this is my guess. No T is perfect at their job, mistakes are made and are learned from.
It may seem different and irreparable right now, (I've been there) but once you get into the room at your next appt you can talk it out and get back on track.
5 weeks is a long time...hang in there.