I am 46 and have always felt alone for connection with a significant other not just friends...friends have always not been on the same wavelength or just not good friends. I am lonely for someone close. I have been to every evening class meet up group etc when i was younger and never made friends or found anyone. I feel i need to focus on not going out but on what i like to do like photography, art and music and do these things and hopefully by doing and ollowing my passions i meet others with the same passions.