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Am I wrong to feel I must talk to her about these things? If I don't raise them,she sure won't.

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You're not wrong. I think open communication about your needs, and your feelings is essential. If you don't talk to her about these things, but continue a friendship with her, you're risking getting burned by the same things over and over again.