hmmmmm... well, this is Your thread.. my invitation to "get it out" was in reference to some frustration you felt recently... i imagined you might use this thread (being yours) to "get it out"... i'm sure we'll be bunping into each other again... if nothing else, hopefully we both have healed from any loose ends left in the past... i know it has shown me a new light...

but this is your thread Tomi... i'll follow your lead unless i'm unable...